Whether you want to or not, you form an opinion of someone almost immediately even when you are messaging each other frequently on plenty more fish. Since writing is a more relaxed form of communication versus talking with someone over the phone or face to face, you might be surprised when your date shows up and he (or she) is incredibly shy and anxious. Remember, just because a person is shy around you does not mean they have been dreading meeting you. You may find yourself thinking “Oh, he barely looks at me, he must not like me.” In actuality, he probably does. Remain positive and continue to engage in a conversation with him. Ask simple, carefree questions about hobbies, work, or school to get him to open up. Invite questions about your own life. While it may feel as if you are doing all the talking, your shy date will appreciate it.
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